The signs are there why you going on red?

So if you know me on facebook you know my status sounds half angry and  
half self reflective. Point blank if a man or woman shows you who they  
are (subtle signs mostly, but sometimes sirens flaring) then that is
who they are. There is no "maybe I can change him/her" or my favorite  
"If I do this he/her will see that I am the one." None of that works  
because if they want to change they will on their own without your  
assistance. Now these next few lines are important. The question is not
does he/she want you because people will take what you will give. So
what you should be asking yourself is what do they want from me and what
is it going to cost me?
Example, this person may say they don't want to hurt you, but will
still alow you to give your all. Leaving you hanging on to a false hope.
Signs clearly state that they don't want you, but they will take what
you give.  Therefore, in the end he can say "well I told you I didn't
want to hurt you, but you kept pushing it" Ladies and Gents take head.
This scene is a clear sign that u don't need to pass go and you probably
don't need a relationship on any basis. The reason I say this is because
you haven't figured out what you are worth. This is not 100%, but I've
seen it enough. Point blank if they show that they cheat (happens in
most cases where they have cheated on another and that's how you two
ended up  
together) then that's what they are. If they lie they are liars. If  
they show physical and/or mental abuse then, guess what, that's how they
have always been. It's an almost guranteed chance that signs are shown  
early on and if you ignore them then yes you are undoubtly a dumbass.  
Personal example, fell for a guy who loved another and told me this  
early. Thought I could change him long story short it didn't happen.  
But damn if he didn't take everything I gave him mentally, physically,  
and emotionally. Whose fault is it? If you answered his then you have  
learned nothing go back and reread. That's my advice for this post.
Until next time have deep thoughts and reflections.

Much love

DePoetress