I know you're wondering about the title, but you know I'll explain. Good morning, afternoon, and evening everyone. This post is one of the most important post I'll make. A coworker of mine sent me a picture of a young 15 year old girl whose face was carved into by the hands of an 18 year old female. Why you ask? Because of a boy that happened to be dating the both of them. The older female took it upon herself to place the blame in the young female instead of where it belonged.
I am refraining from using terms such as woman and man because I believe in this instance we are dealing with young girls and boys. We are dealing with a mentally that states "when hurt you must hurt back."
Though this might disturb you it is not what truly disturbs me. Hence my title, as the conversation about this email continued other women responded. In their response they believed that the young 18 year old female was justified in her actions. Now as grown woman I do not understand. Whether the female knew that he had a girl or not is not important. The person who did wrong in this scenario is the young male.
So let me explain something to everyone. Beating up another person because they were the other man or woman is stupid. You are placing blame in the wrong area. Even if there is blame to be attached violence is not the answer. What you must realize is that no one person belongs to another. Whether you're married or single you are still two individual people with seperate perogatives in any situation.
You must also understand that you are not a man because you learn that you can get two women (or in this case girls) at a time. You must definitely understand that you are not a woman if you beat up someone because they are other woman. Now this is not to say that this situation can't be reversed. Women cheat as well, therefore, placing a man in this prediciment.
Now that I have explained my thoughts feel free share your thoughts.
All I ask is that people seriously think about their actions and consequences. Because people are harming others and ending up in situations they don't need to be in.
Before you hurt ask yourself what if the shoe was on the other foot. Most importantly if you aren't satisfied with one the door opens both ways just open it and step out.
Simply put I love myself too much to fight for someone who isn't satisfied with what I can give. As always please have deep thoughts and reflections until next time.
Much love,
Depoetress
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