Tuesday, October 27, 2009

"Loving enough to choose yourself..."

Hey ya'll I'm back I have been gone for a day or two,but I'm here. I just want to thank my followers and just know that I am following you as well. Again if you have a comment, question or concern please feel free to contact me.
Today's topic came to me today because I was talking to a friend about decisions. In this case it strongly related to the decisions involved in choosing love. As well as, the decisions involved in choosing a love. Before I start talking directly about that I want to introduce the concept of loving yourself in order to find and love someone else. Finding love is first about finding yourself. Ask yourself how can you find what does not already exist inside of you. Therefore, love's key point is to love yourself. You can not give love if it is not apart of you. Another important thought is that you can't look for love with expectations of it making you love yourself. People "find" love because they love themselves and then that love is recognized in another that loves you just as much.
Ok so in order to "Choose love" you must give up. You must get tired of trying it your way allowing for love, and the idea of what you cannot see to take hold. To choose love you choose to understand that it comes in it's own time. To choose love you understand that love is not the one that brings you pain, but it is the actions while "loving" that intercept. Once you wholeheartedly choose and understand love you can make decisions that parallel choosing a love.
These decisions are important because they can keep your heart from going through a lot of breakage.
1. When choosing someone you hope to love you must ask yourself whether or not you can see yourself spending your eternity with them.
2. When choosing someone to love don't choose someone based off of physical. It fades, goes away, gets boring etc.
3. Trust your instincts. Love might not smack you with the answer, but if you listen you will hear.
4. Pressing love into your life by dealing with people you know will lead in heartbreak will get you nowhere. It is also disrepectful to loves work.
5. Last but never the end, love yourself enough to choose yourself. If you become involved in an abusive relationship you must remember that love was there before this person was around. Abuse is not love on any level.
Again these are my thoughts I welcome thoughts and comments. Until next time have deep reflections and thoughts.

Much Love,

Depoetress

2 comments:

  1. So true, loving yourself is the start of everything!

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  2. @2be that was my main concept of the blog. People get so lost on their quest for love that they forget about loving themselves. And then they wonder why they can't find. Thank you for your comment!

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